graves here are more economical in cost and land |
Surprisingly enough, here in Bolivia business took priority, and the bank holiday was moved to Friday November 2nd (today) to give it the long weekend. For the day, everyone is supposed to visit the graves of old relatives. Jackie and I went to the general cemetery in Santa Cruz to check it out.
The streets were silent with all shop doors boarded. Bolivians poured in and out of the cemetery gates, the more elderly in their Sunday best and the youth with their logo Amercian Eagle knock-off t-shirts. Families set up plastic chairs in front of their section, and together drank some local juices from a thermos or a 2 liter of Coke. They brought fresh flowers, chatted, milled about, lit candles as dusk fell, prayed, and passed the time. The Bolivian custom is to bring the favorite food of the deceased and eat it too, but Jackie and I didn't actually see that. Also, apparently further outside the city it turns into more of a party, where the cemeteries belong more to a community.
Jackie and I decided it's really a fantastic sentiment. In the US, you can look at your calendar once a year for an anniversary and mourn silently in solitude, albeit quickly between daily life. But here, you spend time with the ones you have and remember the one's you don't. And it's just really nice.
a photo I took a while back-peaceful graves on the side of the road, hours outside the city |
You were celebrating All Soul's Day on 2nd. A time to remember. Nate is here for the weekend and we plus the dogs are happy. Take care, P
ReplyDeleteThanks Dr. Pete! Actually, for some reason they don't mention it here, and the calendar actually marks it as "Todos Santos" for the government holiday. Enjoy having Nate around- I'm glad he is finally in a place with electricity!
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